Remember when you first laid eyes on your new dog? Remember how your heart and soul filled up with love and joy every time they entered a room. Do you remember how everything stopped and you took time to receive that love and give it right back 10 fold. Remember when showing them off to your friends, taking them for a walk in the park brought you so much joy? When did it all change for you? How did they become this burden, this anger instilling creature?
Did something change in you to make the dog something to be pushed aside? What in you or your life happened to make an object of such love into an object of anger? The dog did not change, so you must have. When did he become aggressive? Did you start neglecting the dog when you became too busy with your day to day tasks, so much so that you quite giving him the right care? Was that when taking him for a simple walk started to be a drag and you just took him out belligerently and with aggression on your end? Maybe he is just acting out because of your dislike of yourself or others around you?
A dog is full of love, and will show it whenever it is given. This fact never changes. So how did you change? You might think you do not deserve the dog's affection, maybe you can only take in a certain amount of love. What if you took some time each time when he walked in the room to lavish attention on him on his level, and let him show you his love? Maybe this will be the start of you remembering how to feel and show love. You might just need to take a deep breath and look at him.
When we forget to give to ourselves, when we fill ourselves with all of the wrong things, when we look outside for love, this little creature that of love no longer can open our hearts to it. Only you can take the time needed to reunite with the love within yourself. Then and only then can your dog bring you joy again.It's not the dogs fault, you hold the key. So today starting now, take time every single day to simply lie down with your dogs and breathe. If they jump on your head, laugh, ask them to lie with you. They're very well be a bridge of trust that they have to cross to believe that you are actually ready to accept their love but they will cross it if you remain ready to receive.
We constantly fool our dogs, we act so loving and kind in the beginning, then we so quickly become frustrated, bitter and angry at them. We fool them into thinking they are safe and then we blow up on them. We are so confusing to them each and every day with our wavering personalities.Let's just get real, let's get back to love.
If the only reason you got the dog was for him to love you, then that is the wrong reason. You have to bring yourself love. It begins with you; do not look to your dog first. Be with your dog when you feel in a loving mood. This way you can give love instead of expecting it.
I invite you to take a good long look at your life and do what you have to do to bring the balance and joy back to yourself so you can in turn begin to soak in the love that your dog has to give to you. Have no regrets in this lifetime with your dog, it will haunt you for a lifetime. I guarantee this. Have fun, accept them for who they are and just work it out, it's worth it. There is no love like the love you can share with a dog, its personal, deep and very private. Allow yourself to feel it every single day, no matter what your life holds.
Did something change in you to make the dog something to be pushed aside? What in you or your life happened to make an object of such love into an object of anger? The dog did not change, so you must have. When did he become aggressive? Did you start neglecting the dog when you became too busy with your day to day tasks, so much so that you quite giving him the right care? Was that when taking him for a simple walk started to be a drag and you just took him out belligerently and with aggression on your end? Maybe he is just acting out because of your dislike of yourself or others around you?
A dog is full of love, and will show it whenever it is given. This fact never changes. So how did you change? You might think you do not deserve the dog's affection, maybe you can only take in a certain amount of love. What if you took some time each time when he walked in the room to lavish attention on him on his level, and let him show you his love? Maybe this will be the start of you remembering how to feel and show love. You might just need to take a deep breath and look at him.
When we forget to give to ourselves, when we fill ourselves with all of the wrong things, when we look outside for love, this little creature that of love no longer can open our hearts to it. Only you can take the time needed to reunite with the love within yourself. Then and only then can your dog bring you joy again.It's not the dogs fault, you hold the key. So today starting now, take time every single day to simply lie down with your dogs and breathe. If they jump on your head, laugh, ask them to lie with you. They're very well be a bridge of trust that they have to cross to believe that you are actually ready to accept their love but they will cross it if you remain ready to receive.
We constantly fool our dogs, we act so loving and kind in the beginning, then we so quickly become frustrated, bitter and angry at them. We fool them into thinking they are safe and then we blow up on them. We are so confusing to them each and every day with our wavering personalities.Let's just get real, let's get back to love.
If the only reason you got the dog was for him to love you, then that is the wrong reason. You have to bring yourself love. It begins with you; do not look to your dog first. Be with your dog when you feel in a loving mood. This way you can give love instead of expecting it.
I invite you to take a good long look at your life and do what you have to do to bring the balance and joy back to yourself so you can in turn begin to soak in the love that your dog has to give to you. Have no regrets in this lifetime with your dog, it will haunt you for a lifetime. I guarantee this. Have fun, accept them for who they are and just work it out, it's worth it. There is no love like the love you can share with a dog, its personal, deep and very private. Allow yourself to feel it every single day, no matter what your life holds.
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