Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Etiquette And Condolences For Loss Of Pet

By Georgia Diaz


Losing a pet is most likely a very real and deep grievance for many pet owners and animal lovers. Pets very often become part of the household in more ways than one and their presence is often reassuring and a form of security. It is of vital importance to be supportive to friends and family who have lost a beloved pet and to offer condolences for loss of pet.

An online memorial is a website that is created to help deal with grief during loss. There are several sites that specifically cater for this market and an online search engine can reveal the variety. This website is created to be a tribute to the life of the deceased pet. It can be used to host pictures and share memories. It can serve as a place of comfort for the griever in difficult times.

Start by offering sympathies such as "I'm sorry for your loss". Often pets are linked to routine, especially dogs that need regular exercising. If a pet owner used to walk their dog before work each day, the grief may be so much more evident at that time. A well placed phone call could make a world of difference.

If another pet is left behind be careful of phrases that involve the other pet. Avoid saying things like "be thankful you still have another pet" or "be grateful for what you have". It may be well meant but phrases like this can easily sound insensitive and could cause conflict in your relationship.

Sometimes pet owners are overcome with grief when the passing on of a pet is still fairly new. Some people may find it comforting to talk about the beloved pet, reminiscing and sharing stories and memories that they enjoyed. A welcome gift to commemorate the passing on can perhaps be a well framed photo of the furry friend, so they can always be in their hearts.

There is a page that is dedicated to tributes and condolences where friends and families can post comments, memories, messages, quotes and condolences. It is a chance for the nearest and dearest to convey their sympathies in an honest and heartfelt way. This also conveys to the family that even though the loss was great, there are people in their lives that love them and support them.

There are options to add themes, backgrounds and music to the site, making it a unique and moving experience to watch. The idea of adding a section where visitors can donate to a local pet charity is a lovely gesture which will be appreciated by the family and the charity equally.

A good start when hearing about the death of a friend's pet is to just call them and chat to them. Listen attentively and offer support. Don't tell them not to cry or that it is probably for the best, even if the pet was not well. Be supportive and sensitive, it is a difficult time and offer condolences for loss of pet, remember the pet was part of the family too.




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