Sunday, July 28, 2013

Importance Of The Child Abuse Survivor Stories

By Maryanne Goff


Child abuse survivor stories are very much available on the internet. Their main aim was actually to help or teach those who might have undergone situations like that which the victims were involve in. The abuse happens to those who are aged not forgetting the children.

Some of these victims re usually suffering from the sexual abuse. When these kind of abuses occur they actually find it very hard to tell their parents of what they have undergone through or who the person is that did that or when the assault occurred. The main reason is that they are afraid because they try to imagine the reaction that the parents would give.

Another mistake that parents do is just to trust some people very much that they can afford to live their girls with them in the house. This is not safe because their are even cases of fathers assaulting their own children, uncles brothers and not forgetting the male neighbors. They can turn to assault them and what can amaze you is that they do not spare even girls below ten years old. This is serious.

There are some victims who come up and open up organization to help future or the past victims. This is not specifically for the victims but you can also find some parents who have volunteered to open up so institutions so that the victims can be helped. By this the victims will not be feeling neglected but they will be having some support.

And even if you discover this after some days you should not keep quit because of shame. You should reported to the authorities so that the person who assaulted her is jailed for the offence. Aside from this you are advised to take the victim to the hospital so that the doctor checks for the case and pregnancy or diseases can be detected at an early stage and done away with.

Another thing that you may also realize is that when the victims tell these stories. It can be very hard to believe because it is obvious that the offender will deny it if you do not have the evidence. So if you are a parent and you are told information like this one take your child and go to the doctor immediately.

After some period of time and counseling they can come back to the senses and look at it as the past. They look into the future to help those that may be having the same problem and are afraid to tell. They become free to talk it out to help some other people. Neglecting or stigmatization is the worst remedy for this problem of assault among the children.

There are very many teachings that one can get when you read the child abuse survivor stories. Parents can use these to teach their children to be fee with them to talk out a problem so that they are helped in time. The should be taken to a doctor to examine them in case of any problem. A counselor can also help them to overcome that difficult situation.




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